Monday, April 19, 2010

Dilemma.....

So Clare is facing a dilemma. I had to go and look that up and a dilemma is "A situation that requires a choice between options that are or seem equally unfavorable or mutually exclusive." Hmmmmm. I think she needs to make a decison and is kind of torn between which is the right choice. That's what I have managed to gather. What to do when you have a dilemma and can't seem to choose ... I think asking the friends that you trust is the first option, maybe find somebody who has had the same problem and see what they did, and when all else fails, pray your little butt off for help and guidance in making the right choice. Sometimes it's not helpful to ask too many people, as they all seem to have different experiences and opinions and it can be confusing more than helpful, so in the end all you can do is pray and then trust your judgement and your gut. That's what dogs do.I think one of our main dilemmas is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better and sometimes that isn't possible. I guess you have to decide what you want, decide what you are willing to exchange for it. Establish your priorities and get on with it. Luckily she doesn't have to make a decision today, she has time to ponder the pros and cons of both, so we shall let you know how that goes.
So it's been an amazing week and we have had a lot of fun. Went to Soho House with the gorgeous Tasha and handsome Bryan and we had such a great night. We met El Nino who is a boxer and just about the most entertaining one I've ever encountered. Still laughing about that night. Then on Friday we went for a hike with lovely Matthew Rhys and then lunch with Dougray, him and Paul and that night we went to see The Eagles at The Hollywood Bowl which was the best concert I ever heard and saw. It was magical and perfect. Clare said that if she had known when she was growing up in Cobham that one day she would see them at The Hollywood Bowl as she now lived in LA she wouldn't have believed it. Then Saturday night Clare and Paul went to dinner at Beverly Hills Hotel at The Polo Lounge which was absolutely fantastic. Sunday we hiked early with friends, had lunch at Soho House and then on to Fabulous Stephen Fry's BBQ at his amazing house in the hills. We hung out with Rufus, and JJ and met Gore Vidal and the awesome Bear Grylls who I think would be my number one choice of companion if I were stuck in the wilderness haha.
So all in all it was a great week. We were LTD (Living The Dream) in so many moments. Paul's philosophy is that you get more of what you focus on so we make sure to say LTD in our heads every time we have one of those times where life seems fabulous and we just seem to get more and more of them as a result. LTD......yayyyyyyyyyy

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